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Distinguished Gay Men is an exclusive matchmaking dating service, offering a personalized approach for gay men seeking a long-term, committed relationship in the Bay Area (Silicon Valley), Oakland, San Francisco, Marin, the Peninsula and Santa Cruz.
Certified Match-maker with the Matchmaking Institute
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We begin with you. We end with you. It’s really all about you.
Our personalized process begins in a comfortable setting. Face to face we learn all about you. We take our time; one to two hours, or many meetings, depending on you.
Together we'll discover:
What makes you unique and special? What’s kind, sweet and childlike about you? What inspires your fierce, strong and protective qualities? What are you like to come home to…? What special gifts do you offer as a partner? What past mistakes will you not repeat in your next relationship?
Now it’s His turn. Define your next Lover
We decipher his best attributes to merge with yours. Is he The Driver? Do you acquiesce? Equal partners with shared responsibilities? Older, wiser, more successful? Younger with exuberant, youthful zest? Who is the Best He to compliment the Best You? We define and refine until we get Him just right.
Customized Methodology
Your matches are selected by our Certified Matchmaker who customizes a dating methodology according to your distinct tastes. We meet personally to update your progress and assure your success.

Men of Courage - Caliber - Commitment
If you are a man of:
Courage: Come out and live your life your way
Caliber: Extraordinary character and vibrant spirit
Commitment: Desiring a loyal lifetime partner
Sponsor Community Events
We belong to most gay organizations in Northern California. We attend, host or sponsor the most prestigious LGBT events, gay workshops and seminars. We shop in gay districts and belong to gay travel agencies. We search all avenues until we find him and bring you two together.

Committed to Your Success
When you fall in love we celebrate your success! Success means you’ve happily committed to an exclusive loving, relationship.
When he makes your toes curl~ we're successful! If he's not quite the one, we meet to obtain your feedback, refine and resume our search.
Our memberships last a year. We take the time to find the right partner for you. We take the time to get it right. To assure your success.
Distinguished Gay Men was created with the vision, and the goal, to reinvent the common practice of matchmaking and cater it to the gay community. Our service is dedicated to men of courage, caliber, and commitment. Distinguished Gay Men’s Mission is to provide gay men with a safe place to honestly share their stories, be understood, celebrate each other and fall in love.