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Distinguished Gay Men is an exclusive matchmaking dating service, offering a personalized approach for gay men seeking a long-term, committed relationship in the Bay Area (Silicon Valley), Oakland, San Francisco, Marin, the Peninsula and Santa Cruz.
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Robert, the Gay Cowboy
I was introduced to my partner that DGM matched me up with in January of 2011. Susan and Dino matched me up with a wonderful man who is a graduate of Harvard and is now retired (as am I). We are both in our 60's. I worked as an Interior Designer in the San Francisco industry for 32 years and still work part time in the industry, as well as volunteering for AIDS/LifeCycle, which benefits the San Francisco AIDS Foundation. Today, we both attend a wonderful Methodist Church in Berkeley that accepts the LGBT community with open arms. 
My new special friend is wonderful! Shortly after meeting each other, I broke my leg and was held up for 8 months. However, we are a great match and he saw me through my recovery. Today, we are finally able to get out and do things together again. We had a great 4th of July at Russian River, and this year is my 67th birthday, so my partner is taking me down to Monterey for the weekend. Our relationship is going smoothly, and I have Susan and Dino of DGM to thank for it. They have been great to work with!  
Thank you Susan and Dino for introducing me to the PHD from the east bay.
Russell, Marketing Director
Having DGM in my corner puts my mind at ease. I’m not wondering if that magical "other" is right around the corner, in the next bar or at that other party...Nor am I trying to squeeze compatibility into a relationship that just isn’t healthy. Susan, Dino and the DGM crew are looking out for my best interests—and that is a very good place to be.
I feel, we gay men fall easily into patterns, types and classifications that in the long run doesn’t lead to fulfilling relationships. Having DGM on my side has been amazing. Their network will surprise you—and they can help you navigate the thornier parts of dating. Our valiant efforts at coupling more frequently backfire than any of us care to admit. Having a professional matchmaker lead you through it just makes sense. Joining DGM made dating fun again for me, which is just what I needed.
Jose, Executive
DGM has been a really good experience and my Partner feels the same way. We never would have met if it weren't for DGM. We've been together almost two years and going strong! It only makes sense to pay for a service of your caliber. Being with my partner is priceless.
  I would recommend DGM to anyone who's looking to find a quality person. I tried online dating, but you don't have someone working for you like DGM. Online dating never worked for me. My experience with DGM has been meeting men who were looking for a partner...men who desired a RELATIONSHIP! Bottom line: DGM found my partner and I'm in a real happy relationship!
Joel, MD
I met my partner, Wally, and DGM helped me start this new relationship! It's a good union...far from perfect, however, I am falling in love. We are now a monogamous couple…you can stop looking for me Susan!